Allied LOVE

Tantric Intimacy Coaching for Couples

Because partnership thrives when we remember we are allies.

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The Invitation

Partnership is a sacred mirror.

When you learn to meet each other with presence, curiosity, and courage, love becomes an evolutionary path.

Allied Love is an invitation for couples to reawaken the sacred current between you — where intimacy becomes a living practice of honesty, attunement, and devotion.
Through Tantric Intimacy coaching, you’ll learn to dissolve patterns of disconnection, rediscover emotional and energetic harmony, and re-ignite the erotic spark that first drew you together.

What You’ll Explore

Emotional Transparency
Learn the art of revealing without defense — speaking from truth, not tension.

Energetic Union
Practice Tantric breath, sound, and movement to synchronize your nervous systems and deepen body-to-body communication.

Erotic Connection
Reclaim sensuality as a form of reverence, play, and embodied presence.

Relational Repair
Transform triggers into opportunities for understanding, safety, and trust.

Work With Elizabeth

As a Certified Sex & Sensuality Coach and Somatic Self-Trust Practitioner, I guide couples in re-patterning intimacy through the body.
My work draws from the Feather & Flame Method, weaving nervous-system attunement, emotional alchemy,
and Tantric ritual to help you rebuild safety, passion, and connection.

Private Coaching Options

  • Couples Coaching Series – 6- or 12-week journeys (virtual or in-person)

  • Single Intimacy Ritual Sessions – for reconnection, exploration, or celebration

  • Custom Retreat Intensives – immersive in-person experiences in Bend or Seattle

These offerings are for couples who…

    • feel emotionally distant or sexually misaligned

    • want to rebuild trust and passion

    • crave a new way of relating that honors body, heart, and spirit

Begin Your Journey

If something in you knows that deeper love and connection are possible, this is your invitation to begin.
Let’s explore what’s alive between you and where your next evolution as lovers might unfold.

Book a complimentary 60-minute Exploratory Call
Pricing and package details are shared during the call.

Contact Me to Learn More

What Couples are Saying

  • Words cannot describe the magic that is Liz! The space she holds seems very much aligned with her soul’s purpose. She is a gift. My wife and I are halfway through her couples intimacy program and the work we have done with Liz has deepened our connection to new levels that expands into every part of our lives. It’s not often you connect with someone who sees you in all of your light, Liz is one of those people. Thank you Liz for all that you are! Beyond grateful the universe has brought us to you!

    Greg, Tantric Intimacy couples coaching client

  • I’m beyond grateful to have found Liz. She was a missing piece in my journey of self love, self discovery, self acceptance and feeling safe in my own body. She exudes the goddess spirit and has provided a blueprint to allow my own inner goddess to be fully expressed. I first attended The Sanctuary ~ A day of fem embodiment and sisterhood and left feeling transformed. Safe, seen and empowered. Liz’s spirit creates a safe and intimate space to allow for full vulnerability and surrender. Something I am continuing to expand on in my own life. I am now partway through her couples intimacy program and am in awe of the new depths my husband and I are able to explore within ourselves and with each other. I am so thankful for Liz and look forward to each opportunity to share space with her. She is a beautiful being and have so much love and gratitude for her. If you are seeking a coach to feel safe, seen and heard. She will create the container desired to love and explore yourself at new depths. Thank you Liz! We love you!

    Alisa, Tantric Intimacy couples coaching client

Part of the Feather & Flame body of work by Elizabeth Carlin

 FAQs

  • Intimacy Coaching sessions are virtual or in-person. In-person sessions are available in Bend, OR (and possibly Seattle WA or elsewhere on a case basis), and include the benefit of live energetic transmission and curated space. Because of the preparation and the depth of work in-person, these sessions are offered at a premium rate. We’ll discuss which format serves you best during our call.

  • No ~ you are welcome to explore Tantric Intimacy coaching as a single or in a non-romantic pairing. Contact me to discuss details.

  • We move at the pace of your nervous system with titration, consent, and resourcing. Your body leads; I follow with care and skill. My training is trauma-informed. If I feel that we need to adapt our approach or that your needs are better served elsewhere, we will have that discussion openly, honestly and respectfully.

Meet your Mentor

Certified Tantric Intimacy & Sensuality Coach | Somatic Self-Trust Practitioner

Hi, I’m Liz. I support couples in rediscovering what it means to love as allies—through presence, truth, and embodied devotion. My work lives at the intersection of nervous-system science and Tantric wisdom, helping partners re-pattern intimacy through safety, sensation, and emotional honesty.

For nearly two decades, I’ve guided people through transformation—first as an healthy food and fitness entrepreneur and now as a somatic and relational coach devoted to the body as a portal to healing.

Through Feather & Flame, my signature method, I weave nervous-system attunement, emotional alchemy, and sacred sexuality to help couples move beyond old patterns of protection into deeper connection, vitality, and trust.

This work is not about fixing what’s broken—it’s about remembering what’s whole.
Together, we create a space where your love can become a living, breathing practice of freedom, intimacy, and truth.